So, I highly encourage to write out a few essays, each with a different point of view of your life, personality, and history, then decide which ones fit the applications best. This also helps with scholarships, internships, etc. later, as different essays are needed. That being said, don't focus too intently on one aspect, I said points of view, not events or moments of clarity. You want to emphasis you and your individuality; not just your experiences, your style and...